Most people want to stay in their homes as they age, and data shows that most people will remain at home. Although there are benefits to moving into a senior community, such as additional support and socialization, a move usually won’t occur until your loved one is ready and has made the decision on their own to make this change.

For some people, cost is the deciding factor. There may be government programs or other services that can help reduce the expense.  Your Mellie Care Coordinator can help identify these programs.

Beyond the cost, the first questions to answer are:

1.  Is your loved one safe at home? 

There are steps you can take to make sure the home is safe such as reducing the risk of falls, preventing wandering, making home modifications, or adding assistive devices. However, there are situations where no matter how much you do, you may not be able to make the home safe enough. 

2.  Can you bring help into the home?

If your loved one needs more support or oversight, are they willing to allow a caregiver to come into their home or accept other services?  It is likely that you will need to pay out of pocket for these services unless your loved one is on Medicaid, has long term care insurance, or eligible for services as a veteran.  Some states and counties have sliding scale or reduced fee services as well.

A Few More Questions

There are programs in the community that can assist with the issues listed below, and Mellie can help identify these options. However, if your loved one is unwilling to access them, a move to a senior community may be a better option.

• Is your loved one eating nutritious meals regularly?

• Are they taking their medications as prescribed?

• Are they able to manage their daily care needs such as bathing and dressing?

• Are they able to maintain their home including laundry and keeping it clean?

• Are they receiving adequate medical care?

• Do they participate in social activities?